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Michele asks professionals: How detailed should conversations be? One of the issues you’ll be facing is the different ways the unfaithful and betrayed spouse feel about discussing the details of the affair. Often, the unfaithful spouse is uncomfortable sharing information, but the betrayed spouse has a “need to know.” Additionally, even when unfaithful spouses share information, for a variety of reasons, they frequently avoid telling the whole story. FOR MORE INFORMATION: https://divorcebustingtraining.mykajabi.com/p/video-series-hfipros-test-01 About Michele Michele Weiner-Davis, MSW is an internationally renowned relationship expert, best-selling author, marriage therapist, and professional speaker who specializes in helping people change their lives and improve important relationships. Michele’s private practice is limited to two-day “intensives” in Boulder, CO. Clients come to Colorado from all over the world to experience these transformational sessions with her. Among the first in her field to courageously speak out about the pitfalls of unnecessary divorce, Michele has been active in spearheading the now popular movement urging couples to make their marriages work and keep their families together. She is the author of eight books including her best-selling books, DIVORCE BUSTING: A Step-by-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again (Simon & Schuster), and THE SEX-STARVED MARRIAGE: A Couple's Guide to Boosting Their Marriage Libido (Simon & Schuster). Michele is the Director of The Divorce Busting® Center with offices in Boulder, Colorado and Woodstock, Illinois. In addition to her private practice, Michele is a highly acclaimed and sought-after speaker, known for her life-transforming, energetic and entertaining keynote addresses and seminars for both lay and professional audiences including Fortune 500 companies, universities, religious organizations, the military, professional organizations, and community agencies. She consistently ranks among top presenters at national conferences. Her extremely busy website, www.divorcebusting.com attracts thousands of visitors each day. Michele's work is highly regarded in professional circles. She was the recipient of The American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy's prestigious Outstanding Contribution to the Field of Marriage and Therapy Award and Smart Marriages' Impact Award. Her work has been featured in major newspapers such as the New York Times, USA TODAY, Los Angeles Times, Washington Post, Chicago Tribune, Wall Street Journal, and magazines such as Time, Redbook, Ladies Home Journal, Essence, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Woman's Day, Men's Health, New Woman, and McCall's. She has made countless media appearances on shows such as Oprah, 48 Hours, 20/20, The Today Show, CBS This Morning, CBS Evening News, CNN, BBC, PBS and Bill O'Reilly. Michele's Keeping Love Alive program aired on PBS stations nationwide. She completed a reality based show for the BBC about helping couples save their marriages. Her TEDx TALK: THE SEX-STARVED MARRIAGE has been viewed more than 3.5 million times! Michele maintains that her true expertise in helping couples have great relationships is derived from first-hand experience. She and her husband met at Grinnell College and have been married for more than forty years.

Many betrayed spouses can’t move forward unless their partners are willing to have their lives become open books. However, many unfaithful spouses are unwilling to do this because they feel its an invasion of their privacy. Knowing how to handle this dilemma is essential. For more information about Michele Weiner-Davis' Healing From Infidelity - A Professional Program: https://divorcebustingtraining.mykajabi.com/p/video-series-hfipros-video-04 About Michele Michele Weiner-Davis, MSW is an internationally renowned relationship expert, best-selling author, marriage therapist, and professional speaker who specializes in helping people change their lives and improve important relationships. Michele’s private practice is limited to two-day “intensives” in Boulder, CO. Clients come to Colorado from all over the world to experience these transformational sessions with her. Among the first in her field to courageously speak out about the pitfalls of unnecessary divorce, Michele has been active in spearheading the now popular movement urging couples to make their marriages work and keep their families together. She is the author of eight books including her best-selling books, DIVORCE BUSTING: A Step-by-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again (Simon & Schuster), and THE SEX-STARVED MARRIAGE: A Couple's Guide to Boosting Their Marriage Libido (Simon & Schuster). Michele is the Director of The Divorce Busting® Center with offices in Boulder, Colorado and Woodstock, Illinois. In addition to her private practice, Michele is a highly acclaimed and sought-after speaker, known for her life-transforming, energetic and entertaining keynote addresses and seminars for both lay and professional audiences including Fortune 500 companies, universities, religious organizations, the military, professional organizations, and community agencies. She consistently ranks among top presenters at national conferences. Her extremely busy website, www.divorcebusting.com attracts thousands of visitors each day. Michele's work is highly regarded in professional circles. She was the recipient of The American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy's prestigious Outstanding Contribution to the Field of Marriage and Therapy Award and Smart Marriages' Impact Award. Her work has been featured in major newspapers such as the New York Times, USA TODAY, Los Angeles Times, Washington Post, Chicago Tribune, Wall Street Journal, and magazines such as Time, Redbook, Ladies Home Journal, Essence, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Woman's Day, Men's Health, New Woman, and McCall's. She has made countless media appearances on shows such as Oprah, 48 Hours, 20/20, The Today Show, CBS This Morning, CBS Evening News, CNN, BBC, PBS and Bill O'Reilly. Michele's Keeping Love Alive program aired on PBS stations nationwide. She completed a reality based show for the BBC about helping couples save their marriages. Her TEDx TALK: THE SEX-STARVED MARRIAGE has been viewed more than 3.5 million times! Michele maintains that her true expertise in helping couples have great relationships is derived from first-hand experience. She and her husband met at Grinnell College and have been married for more than forty years.

http://divorcebusting.com Coping with your spouses midlife crisis is the topic of Michele Weiner Davis' first Q&A video feature. Depending on how you handle this turmoil will dictate whether your marriage falls apart, or grows stronger over the long term. Weiner-Davis advises to give your spouse space, staying centered, and to focus on bettering yourself. By giving your troubled spouse time and space to figure things out for their own, they are more likely to realize that you're not the source of their animosity. Get more advice on how to save your marriage at http://divorcebusting.com, follow Michele on Twitter at http://twitter.com/divorcebusting, and join Michele on Facebook at http://facebook.com/divorcebusting

http://www.divorcebusting.com/blog/divorce-busting-101-save-your-marriage-relationship-goals/ Get quality marriage advice from international best selling author, Michele Weiner Davis. In this Divorce Busting 101 video, Michele explains the value of setting relationship goals. By having a greater vision for the direction you'd like your relationship to head, you lay the foundation to save your marriage. Want to talk to a Divorce Busting Coach? Visit here - http://www.divorcebusting.com/mm5/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Product_Code=801&Category_Code=TC&Product_Count=0 Get more advice on how to save your marriage at http://divorcebusting.com, follow Michele on Twitter at http://twitter.com/divorcebusting, join Michele on Facebook at http://facebook.com/divorcebusting, and read Michele's blog at http://divorcebusting.com/blog . Transcript: Do you want a better relationship? If you do you have to set relationship goals. Why? Because if you aim at nothing, youll hit it every time. When i talk to couples about setting relationship goals, they think about new years eve and they say I set goals on new years eve. But what are those goals for? Theyre for eating less, exercising more, quitting drinking or quitting smoking. Think about it, what do all of those goals have in common? Theyre personal goals, theyre not relationship goals. And so today Im going to help you really identify what you need to do differently to set solution oriented relationship goals- goals that contain within them the seeds for solution. There are 3 criteria. The first one is that you have to state your goals positively. People generally dont do that. When I ask couples in my practice, what are you hoping to change about your relationship? What do you want to improve? Generally they want to talk about theyre unhappy about. Theyll say, I wish my husband wasnt so critical. I wish my wife werent such a nag. Those are not goals those are complaints. Lets turn them into positively stated goals. Back to the wife who says I wish my husband werent so critical. I would ask her, when he stops being so critical, what will he be doing differently? And shell say something like, I wish he would compliment me more,, if he just thanked me once in a while for making great meals or, if he told me I looked really hot, Id really know were on the right track. Thats a great difference because if she thinks that her goal is I wish my husband were less critical, shell go home, looking for him to be critical, counting it, and hoping its fewer times. On the other hand if she goes home saying I hope that hes more complimentary and she looks for him being more complimentary, saying nicer things, thats going to instantly change the dynamics of their relationship. Get it? Criteria number two...read the rest at... http://www.divorcebusting.com/blog/divorce-busting-101-save-your-marriage-relationship-goals/

Buy "THE SEX-STARVED WIFE: What To Do When He's Lost Desire" on Amazon: http://amzn.to/2Dzfov6 Is your husband not interested in sex? Low sexual desire in men is America's best kept secret. Millions of men don't want sex with their wives. The problem is, men simply don't want to talk about their low sex drives with their wives, health care professionals, or anyone else for that matter. This leaves women feeling alone and lonely. This video explains this sexual problem in marriage and offers sex-starved wives several tips for bridging the desire gap. Want to talk to a Divorce Busting Coach? Visit here - http://www.divorcebusting.com/mm5/mer... Get more advice on how to save your marriage at http://divorcebusting.com, follow Michele on Twitter at http://twitter.com/divorcebusting, join Michele on Facebook at http://facebook.com/divorcebusting, SUBSCRIBE TO THE NEWSLETTER AT:http://visitor.r20.constantcontact.com/d.jsp?llr=m5lqnycab&p=oi&m=1102478585804&sit=vvpy7z5db&f=324c5809-3e09-40f1-90f5-7f615b633e60, and read Michele's blog at http://divorcebusting.com/blog . Transcript: Are you a sex starved wife? A while back I wrote a book called the Sex-Starved Marriage where I described what happens in marriage when one spouse has a much higher sex drive than the other. In that book I devoted about five pages to the unique challenges of women when they're the ones with higher. And based on that small amount of coverage I was inundated with e-mails and calls from women saying "thank you so much for bringing up this issue. I thought I was the only one whose husband wasn't chasing them around the living room with an erection." So often you go into a locker room and you hear men complaining about their wives not wanting sex or having headaches. If you listen into women's conversations over lunch they're always saying that their husbands are animals, they always want sex. But do you know why that is? Low desire in men is America's best kept secret. Millions of men aren't interested in having sex, they just aren't talking about it. I did a study with Redbook Magazine and you know what we found? Two thirds of the women that responded in this study said they wanted sex at least as much if not more than their husbands. We found some other things that were very interesting as well. Men, when they have low desire, aren't willing to discuss the problem. They don't want to talk about it with their wives, they don't want to call their health care professionals. They just don't want to talk about it. You know why? They feel so much shame because in our culture masculinity is often equated to virility. It strikes terror into the hearts of men to think they're not interested in sex - it is a taboo subject. This leaves the problem unresolved and their wives are exasperated. Interestingly enough, women don't even talk to their girlfriends about it. They're embarrassed thinking they're the only ones and they don't want to embarrass their husbands. So what's a woman to do when she's having this problem and her heart is aching and her husband won't talk and he won't get help. The first thing she needs to do is have her husband watch this video. Because I'm saying what you've been saying for a very long time, only maybe he'll hear it coming from me. The second thing is to urge your husband to get a physical check up. I know what you're thinking about when I say that. You're thinking, "yeah right I can't get my husband to go to a doctor. Men don't go to doctors unless they've lost a limb or they're bleeding to death." That's probably true, but I've talked to a lot of women who've talked to their husband and said "please just go for a physical check up," and he would say, "okay," but he doesn't make an appointment. If your husband has said he's willing to get a physical check up, use that as license for you to pick up the phone, make an appointment, and get him in the car. But women often say, "I don't want to be his mother." You're not his mother, you're tipping over the first domino. You're getting him the help he needs so he can begin to address the issue. Take charge, take the first step. Secondly, if you're having trouble getting through to your husband, call a Divorce Busting Coach who can help you come up with a plan to approach your husband in a loving way so that he doesn't feel threatened, so that you're not hurting his ego, his ego is hurting enough. Your Divorce Busting Coach will help you figure out exactly what you should say or do so when you approach your husband he will listen and he will be more responsive. Being distant physically is really difficult in a relationship and I know you're having a hard time. Do something now to make things better. You can be closer physically and your relationship will heal. Call a Divorce Busting Coach 303-444-7004 for top quality marriage counseling and to save your marriage today.

This video is about When Couples Therapy is a Bad Idea. Watch this video to find out what the Divorce Buster means by a bad idea. Get more advice on how to save your marriage at http://divorcebusting.com, follow Michele on Twitter at http://twitter.com/divorcebusting, and join Michele on Facebook at http://facebook.com/divorcebusting SUBSCRIBE TO MICHELE'S NEWSLETTER: http://bit.ly/divorcebustinglettersignup Michele Weiner-Davis, MSW is an internationally renowned relationship expert, best-selling author, marriage therapist, and professional speaker who specializes in helping people change their lives and improve important relationships. Among the first in her field to courageously speak out about the pitfalls of unnecessary divorce, Michele has been active in spearheading the now popular movement urging couples to make their marriages work and keep their families together. She is the author of seven books including her best-selling books, DIVORCE BUSTING: A Step-by-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again (Simon & Schuster), and THE SEX-STARVED MARRIAGE: A Couple's Guide to Boosting Their Marriage Libido (Simon & Schuster). Michele is the Director of The Divorce Busting® Center with offices in Boulder, Colorado and Woodstock, Illinois. In addition to her private practice, Michele is a highly acclaimed and sought-after speaker, known for her life-transforming, energetic and entertaining keynote addresses and seminars for both lay and professional audiences including Fortune 500 companies, universities, religious organizations, the military, professional organizations, and community agencies. She consistently ranks among top presenters at national conferences. Her extremely busy website, www.divorcebusting.com attracts thousands of visitors each day. Michele's work is highly regarded in professional circles. She was the recipient of The American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy's prestigious Outstanding Contribution to the Field of Marriage and Therapy Award and Smart Marriages' Impact Award. Michele's work has been featured in major newspapers such as the New York Times, Los Angeles Times, Washington Post, Chicago Tribune, Wall Street Journal, and magazines such as Time, Redbook, Ladies Home Journal, Essence, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Woman's Day, Men's Health, New Woman, and McCall's. She has made countless media appearances on shows such as Oprah, 48 Hours, 20/20, The Today Show, CBS This Morning, CBS Evening News, CNN, and Bill O'Reilly. Michele's Keeping Love Alive program aired on PBS stations nationwide. She recently completed a reality based show for the BBC about helping couples save their marriages. Michele maintains that her true expertise in helping couples have great relationships is derived from first-hand experience. She and her husband have been married for more than thirty-five years.

BUY THIS BOOK AT AMAZON: http://amzn.to/2hLxPTk more info at: healingfrominfidelity.com From bestselling author and renowned relationship expert, Michele Weiner-Davis, comes a powerful blueprint for helping couples rebuild trust and mend their marriages following the pain of the discovery of an affair through forgiveness and beyond. For more go to: healingfrominfidelity.com About Michele Michele Weiner-Davis, MSW is an internationally renowned relationship expert, best-selling author, marriage therapist, and professional speaker who specializes in helping people change their lives and improve important relationships. Among the first in her field to courageously speak out about the pitfalls of unnecessary divorce, Michele has been active in spearheading the now popular movement urging couples to make their marriages work and keep their families together. She is the author of eight books including her best-selling books, DIVORCE BUSTING: A Step-by-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again (Simon & Schuster), and THE SEX-STARVED MARRIAGE: A Couple's Guide to Boosting Their Marriage Libido (Simon & Schuster). Michele is the Director of The Divorce Busting® Center with offices in Boulder, Colorado and Woodstock, Illinois. In addition to her private practice, Michele is a highly acclaimed and sought-after speaker, known for her life-transforming, energetic and entertaining keynote addresses and seminars for both lay and professional audiences including Fortune 500 companies, universities, religious organizations, the military, professional organizations, and community agencies. She consistently ranks among top presenters at national conferences. Her extremely busy website, www.divorcebusting.com attracts thousands of visitors each day. Michele's work is highly regarded in professional circles. She was the recipient of The American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy's prestigious Outstanding Contribution to the Field of Marriage and Therapy Award and Smart Marriages' Impact Award. Her work has been featured in major newspapers such as the New York Times, USA TODAY, Los Angeles Times, Washington Post, Chicago Tribune, Wall Street Journal, and magazines such as Time, Redbook, Ladies Home Journal, Essence, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Woman's Day, Men's Health, New Woman, and McCall's. She has made countless media appearances on shows such as Oprah, 48 Hours, 20/20, The Today Show, CBS This Morning, CBS Evening News, CNN, BBC, PBS and Bill O'Reilly. Michele's Keeping Love Alive program aired on PBS stations nationwide. She completed a reality based show for the BBC about helping couples save their marriages. Her TEDx TALK: THE SEX-STARVED MARRIAGE has been viewed more than 3.5 million times! Michele maintains that her true expertise in helping couples have great relationships is derived from first-hand experience. She and her husband met at Grinnell College and have been married for more than forty years.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/blog/is-marriage-obsolete-michele-weiner-davis-weighs-in/ ^^(Full Post)^^ Is Marriage Obsolete? With the recent findings of the Pew Research report, the media has certainly given a lot of hype to the premise that marriage is somehow obsolete, or in a serious state of decline. Michele Weiner-Davis offers her two cents, including that although there may be a gradual shift in trends, marriage is, and will remain the preferred route.

Renowned marriage therapist and best-selling author, Michele Weiner-Davis offers 5 strategies to greatly improve or save your marriage. This clip is excerpted from The Marriage Breakthrough® 2016 Edition. You can purchase this entire 5 1/2 hour program, originally delivered live to thousands of couples and individuals. Who says that marriage doesn't come with instructions? It does NOW! Buy the program: https://divorcebustingtraining.mykajabi.com/offers/opGsoyh2. More Information:https://divorcebustingtraining.mykajabi.com/balboa-mb-long-tester Use Coupon: BREAKTHROUGH for $89.00 off! About Michele Michele Weiner-Davis, MSW is an internationally renowned relationship expert, best-selling author, marriage therapist, and professional speaker who specializes in helping people change their lives and improve important relationships. Among the first in her field to courageously speak out about the pitfalls of unnecessary divorce, Michele has been active in spearheading the now popular movement urging couples to make their marriages work and keep their families together. Michele’s private practice is limited to two-day “intensives” in Boulder, CO. Clients come to Colorado from all over the world to experience these transformational sessions with her. She is the author of eight books including her best-selling books, DIVORCE BUSTING: A Step-by-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again (Simon & Schuster), THE SEX-STARVED MARRIAGE: A Couple's Guide to Boosting Their Marriage Libido (Simon & Schuster)… and her most recent, HEALING FROM INFIDELITY (Amazon) : A Divorce Busting® Guide to Rebuilding Your Marriage After an Affair. Michele is the Director of The Divorce Busting® Center with offices in Boulder, Colorado and Woodstock, Illinois. In addition to her private practice, Michele is a highly acclaimed and sought-after speaker, known for her life-transforming, energetic and entertaining keynote addresses and seminars for both lay and professional audiences including Fortune 500 companies, universities, religious organizations, the military, professional organizations, and community agencies. She consistently ranks among top presenters at national conferences. Her extremely busy website, www.divorcebusting.com attracts thousands of visitors each day. Michele's work is highly regarded in professional circles. She was the recipient of The American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy's prestigious Outstanding Contribution to the Field of Marriage and Therapy Award and Smart Marriages' Impact Award. Her work has been featured in major newspapers such as the New York Times, USA TODAY, Los Angeles Times, Washington Post, Chicago Tribune, Wall Street Journal, and magazines such as Time, Redbook, Ladies Home Journal, Essence, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Woman's Day, Men's Health, New Woman, and McCall's. She has made countless media appearances on shows such as Oprah, 48 Hours, 20/20, The Today Show, CBS This Morning, CBS Evening News, CNN, BBC, PBS and Bill O'Reilly. Michele's Keeping Love Alive program aired on PBS stations nationwide. She completed a reality based show for the BBC about helping couples save their marriages. Her TEDx TALK: THE SEX-STARVED MARRIAGE has been viewed more than 3.5 million times! Michele maintains that her true expertise in helping couples have great relationships is derived from first-hand experience. She and her husband met at Grinnell College and have been married for more than forty years. Books by Michele Weiner-Davis My books Divorce Busting and The Divorce Remedy are dedicated to the idea that most relationship problems can and should be resolved. What are generally missing are the necessary skills, tools, compassion, and understanding. The books are chock full of skills and practical advice. In A Woman’s Guide to Changing Her Man I’ve written a woman-to-woman manual about how men and women differ, and, knowing that, what to do. The book’s divided into three parts: Ready, Aim, Fire. In it’s German translation, my friend tells me it was re-titled Dog Training. Really? My first book, In Search of Solutions, is a textbook used in several graduate schools, coauthored with my co-founder of Solution-Oriented Therapy, Bill O’Hanlon. It describes the principles and applications of Solution-Oriented Therapy (SOT) and its genealogy from Milton Erickson to the Mental Research Institute to [my mentor] Steve de Shazer at BTFC. SOT works quickly by helping people identify fail-safe strategies to resolve problems. Instead of identifying the causes of problems, SOT identifies the causes of solutions. It’s a technology for change, not introspection. The approach is based on a very simple formula: do more of what works and less of what doesn’t.